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    Casual sex or eternal love?

    Being 24 I have mixed views about settling down and love in general. Being young we should be enjoying ourselves, trying new things and experiencing life in steps as each one you take might be another opportunity wasted… the world passes you by. You have to ask yourself “am I happy to be in a serious relationship so young?” See this is a thought you can’t ignore and can blind people from the fact that you’re probably with the perfect partner. With myself I’m not looking for someone to marry and spend the rest of my life with but if she is standing in front of me I’m not going to pass on it. I honestly believe that there is someone out there for everybody but the thing is I don’t want to meet her now… But do I? I want to have fun… Sex… but unpaid for and spontaneous… Locked up secrets…A friendship with no barriers or rules… No one has to feel bad or stress about each others problems… A casual relationship is without a doubt a very precious fad these days. Hooking up with your boss or your best friend’s partner… right or wrong, it’s a spark that makes life a bit more edgy and fills in essential pieces to your personality. We all think of scenarios like these but most of the time fixation never amounts to action. The people who make a move I bet are a lot happier… Would you ever tell your neighbor that you want them in bed? Your best friend’s crush, your boss… Putting these aside morals obviously come on board and play a huge part. I look back and honestly regret not taking action on opportunity’s that would have been crazy but would have given me a wave of satisfaction. Yes there is possibility of hurting people’s feelings and harming friendships but what’s wrong with secrets? We don’t do it to hurt… we do it to fulfill our demons inside… The consequences are what they are but without them it wouldn’t be a thrill would it. I’m writing this knowing I’ll be judged but whatever your thoughts on me are… What I say here is just a question I ask to you…



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    Good question Sandro. Everyone does feel the need for casual sex at times.
    I have seen some cases which started with casual sex but eventually led on to love and relationships. That transition is the toughest I believe and should be strictly avoided even though there would be a lot of forces pushing you to commit into it. How can one expect a relationship to succeed if its very foundation is based on casual sex?

    A question to Sandro or anyone who wants to answer his question - Have you felt that love feeling ever? The answer to this should matter a lot on your opinion of casual sex.
    IO SONO INTERISTA

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    Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
    And sorry I could not travel both
    And be one traveler, long I stood
    And looked down one as far as I could
    To where it bent in the undergrowth;

    Then took the other, as just as fair,
    And having perhaps the better claim,
    Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
    Though as for that the passing there
    Had worn them really about the same,

    And both that morning equally lay
    In leaves no step had trodden black.
    Oh, I kept the first for another day!
    Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
    I doubted if I should ever come back.

    I shall be telling this with a sigh
    Somewhere ages and ages hence:
    Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
    I took the one less traveled by,
    And that has made all the difference.

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    Isn't there something in between one-night experiences and eternal ones?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Forza ragazzi View Post
    Isn't there something in between one-night experiences and eternal ones?
    Yea, a fuck buddy.

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    i was thinking about that dilemma as well.

    i'm 20 and i'm living with my gf for almost 2 years now. before her i've only been with 3 other women. since we became more ''serious'' i had a couple of opportunities to have random sex and turned down everyone of them.

    now if in a couple of years we separate, i'll be for example 25 and i'll still have time for other women. my friend is now 27 and was with his gf for 11 years. she left him for another man and now he's alone, he isn't used to going out and picking up women and he's all depressed. he regrets very much that he was with that woman for so long.

    i don't know if it is better to separate now and have fun with random women or to stay with my gf and live with the possibility we might split when we're 30, and then having much trouble to find another woman??
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    You got to take chances to be happy.
    So, i choose eternal love and casual sex
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    and when your eternal love finds out about your casual sex?
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    No, u got me wrong. I never cheat. My casual sex is only with my eternal love. The thing is, you should always try to keep her and yourself happy, then everything is gonna be alright. People always forget that you should fight for happiness all the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ilkinio View Post
    My casual sex is only with my eternal love.
    IO SONO INTERISTA

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    Call me a girl, but sex with out feelings is just bull. The problem with one night drunken stands, is that sometimes it just seems like, you are fuckin a machine. In, out, somtimes you gotta oil her up, to see if its working properly.

    On the other hand, the prospect of eternal love at such a young age scares the crap out of me. Maybe when I am 30 it will be fine, but not right now.

    So, the perfect solution is what FR asked. Something in between the two. And what Han so rudely answered, a fuck buddy. In civilized culture we call them friends with benefits. In Pornographic culture we call them FILFS.
    Friends with benefits is the best solution. Its not like you dont know the person. You know the person, you care about her, and you dont feel jealous if she is sleeping around town, and she doesnt care if you go around sleeping around town. You can sometimes share your feelings, and enjoy life happily ever after.
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    looks like i missed that train and started a serious relationship too early.

    well as long as we're happy it's ok for me
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    Making a FILF is a complicated matter, isn't it?

    Anyway, if you are in a relationship and in love, you should go for it if it feels right. You can't do around thinking "what if she leaves me?", when you are with her. Then you might as well break up to relieve yourself from the terror of being left by a girl.
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    oh crap.....i smoked too much green stuff that day...

    i totally forgot i wrote something....whata load of crap

    i mean what kind of an idiot would leave a girl he's completely happy with, just so she can't leave him 10 yrs later
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    Eternal sex.

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    eternal love tbh
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    IF you find that kind of love. :emo:

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    I thought it was Dino who contemplated too much about his life?
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