The bullshit thread

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I’ve already told her I was busy, but she came back nevertheless. It’s a good enough method to get her off of my back for some time, but it’s only delaying the inevitable. She’s just relentless:yao2:

Tell her you have a girlfriend.

That usually gets them to leave you alone.
 
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Coming from personal experience you can still be nice to her and keep your distance. I think you'd have to find balance in that to make it work if you're worried about the blackmail.
 
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So I guess the crux of the matter is that she'd blackmail you with disclosing that nasty info about you. You could
  • Convince her that that info being out there really doesn't bother you.
  • Convince her that that info being out there bothers you so much you'd become suicidal.
  • Get some dirt on her which is worse than the dirt she has on you.
The above may not be of help at all in the short run since you're deciding whether to reply to her or not, but it all really comes down to how bad that info is and how far you are willing to go. Have you considered changing your number/deleting your social media platform etc.?
 

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Do you think she'd actually blackmail you?
I’m not sure, but I wouldn’t put it past her. She’s certainly not someone I consider particularly rational.

Get a lawyer dude
As last resort maybe, Imma try to resolve this whole thing with milder means first :lol:

You'll have to do good enough ghosting to fall completely off the grid. She sounds annoying, sadly I don't have a real answer to your problem, keep telling her you're busy or ghost her completely.
Been trying that, hasn’t led to fruition so far unfortunately. But yeah, at some point she has to give up I hope

Tell her you have a girlfriend.

That usually gets them to leave you alone.
I’ve heard this one a few times now. Definitely something I’m going to consider, probably more believable than claiming to be gay. I know one of my female friends would help to assist me with a fake relationship in case she starts digging.

Coming from personal experience you can still be nice to her and keep your distance. I think you'd have to find balance in that to make it work if you're worried about the blackmail.
Reasonable, but not something that I would prefer. Not being an asshole to her I can do (not like it's an option anyway in this case), but my patience is gone and keeping up the nice guy attitude is going to be difficult. Ultimately I want her out of my life entirely.

Or if there mental, it can backfire and get them even more into you 🤣🤣🤣
Possibly yes, but probably not

So I guess the crux of the matter is that she'd blackmail you with disclosing that nasty info about you. You could
  • Convince her that that info being out there really doesn't bother you.
  • Convince her that that info being out there bothers you so much you'd become suicidal.
  • Get some dirt on her which is worse than the dirt she has on you.
The above may not be of help at all in the short run since you're deciding whether to reply to her or not, but it all really comes down to how bad that info is and how far you are willing to go. Have you considered changing your number/deleting your social media platform etc.?
The 2nd point is pretty good, definitely something I’m going to consider.
The 3rd one is a little too combative, I don’t like playing that game tbh.

Yes, I actually have thought about changing my number. In fact I have a couple of numbers lying around. That would unfortunately mean I wouldn’t be able to continue with my current contract (which is a steal).

ok just smash her...
Yeah nah, that ain't happening :yao2:
 
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there was this chick in college that would give us money to buy us booze almost every night. So free booze and then I'd smash her and one of her friends.

She thought we were in a relationship. She told her friends I texted her and stuff. It's like I didn't have the girls number she would come down with a friend for me and my boy to get a keg and some other drinks. They'd pay for it so we were like cool deal. We wouldn't hang out with them on the real party days of Thursday-Saturday.

Came back from winter break and her friends told me how crazy she was. I just told her I was getting back with my ex from back home over the winter break and she left me alone. Hated me but left me alone
 

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I’m having a bit of a dilemma and I’ve talked about this with some friends but I figured I’d gather some opinions from the wise men on FIF.

I want to describe my situation as briefly as possible:
I met this chick around 2,5 years ago and we kept in touch mainly due to university stuff and covid lockdown boredom. We met a couple of times and I would have described her as a good acquaintance, but not much more than that, until a while ago. Unfortunately the type of feelings we have for each other aren’t mutual, I know that she has a massive crush on me.

After a while though her personality came through more and more and she turned out to be a VERY naive and childish person. It’s clear that she doesn’t really have a grasp on how life works, like at all. I won’t give examples but some of her views were just shocking for a person her age. She has the mindset of a 13 year old despite being in her 20s.
Anyway… as time passed I found her to be quite repulsive and grew increasingly annoyed with her. I may add that she is by far the most aggressively annoying person I have ever met and being annoying is one of the worst character traits that on can have imo.

Now here’s where things get complicated: The girl has some dirt on my, alright, that means I won’t take the risk of telling her to fuck off in a mean way, because that could have some severe consequences for me. I won’t disclose what that is, but it’s bad.
I hoped she’d take the fucking hint when I stopped initiating conversations with her and didn’t even bother to properly reply to her messages anymore.

After about a month of radio silence I thought I finally got rid of her until a few days ago, when she came back. And oh boy did she come back. I was hit by a fucking avalanche of messages- WE BARELY HAVE ANY CONTACT ANYMORE, YOU’RE AWARE OF THIS, RIGHT? :/ :/ LETS GO FOR A COFFEE; LETS GO TO A 3-DAY FESTIVAL!!! (and also loads of other shit). Literally all of this at once. I don’t want to meet her, in fact I don’t even want to reply to her.

At this point she’s just a disrespectful annoying cunt and I just want her TO LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. She’s probably thinking there’s still a chance of a romantic relationship at this point. We ain’t friends, heck I don’t even like her. If she didn’t have leverage on me I would have politely told her that we’re not a good fit or straight up blocked her.
I couldn’t collect enough motivation to reply yet and I’m not sure what to do since she could go ballistic at any point. I thought about telling her I was gay but she probably knows that I’m not. And even if she bites I don’t want to be her gay best friend. I want her out of my life because she drives me fucking nuts.

Any other ideas on how to approach this?
Sorry for a late, serious reply, el Phonko... Thought you might've been talking about Uni....

The only answer to this question is to do what women do when they don't like you... You should show a complete disinterest in anything they say or suggest, and continue doing that until they take the hint.

And of course, enjoy a couple of beverages while enjoying the silence.
 

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Sorry for a late, serious reply, el Phonko... Thought you might've been talking about Uni....

The only answer to this question is to do what women do when they don't like you... You should show a complete disinterest in anything they say or suggest, and continue doing that until they take the hint.

And of course, enjoy a couple of beverages while enjoying the silence.
Depends on the woman. In some instances, the best way to make them be repulsed by you is to take a thorough interest in them.
 

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Still confused does this girl want to be your girlfriend or just wants to talk to you once in a while as a friend?

Like saying you have a gf will solve both those problems. Once you have a gf they aren’t super pumped about the other girls you hang out with that want your dick in their mouths or have had your dick in their mouths haha
 

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OKTA has had a data breach.. there goes my whole day ffs smh.
 
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Idk how many of you like watches but Omega and Swatch are basically doing a colab for a cheap quartz speedmaster priced in at $320CAD. It's sad that people actually starting lining up 3pm yesterday(the store opens at 10am the next day). The sad part is, it's not even a limited production and it will be available online eventually lol
 

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Idk how many of you like watches but Omega and Swatch are basically doing a colab for a cheap quartz speedmaster priced in at $320CAD. It's sad that people actually starting lining up 3pm yesterday(the store opens at 10am the next day). The sad part is, it's not even a limited production and it will be available online eventually lol
It s the beauty of capitalism.......

Also collab is used a bit loose here when swatch owns omega
 
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It s the beauty of capitalism.......

Also collab is used a bit loose here when swatch owns omega
I'm well aware of that, but that's what Omega called it lol
 

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best youtuber is back!
 

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that was great, but I still think his best covered story is the furry con one. The shia labeouf one was great too because I got to experience 4chan fucking with him live.
 

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I love his Costa Concordia one
 

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